So I think I like this guy but the only problem is that he’s shorter than me by a few inches, is it OK [to date him] or is it just too awkward?

The first thing to take account for is whether or not you have feelings for this guy—if you do, more power to you. Understand that expectations may not always equal reality; you’re never going to find all aspects of your “dream dude” in anyone you will ever meet or date—there will always be a couple of physical/personality traits that separate him from the “ideal lover”. The next step, after grasping the concept of imperfection, is to disconnect with society’s expectation of relationships—don’t be shallow and close your options simply because of a couple of inches—that’s not cool.  It shouldn’t affect the outcome of the relationship. Instead of squandering your energy focusing on the lack of inches of his height you should be considering the matchup of your personality to his. Personality first, then appearance, and then everything else. Always.  Besides it wouldn’t be that uncomfortable to kneel down for hugs and kisses.

Good luck darling and I hope everything works out in your favor.

OK so my boyfriend and I are going to separate colleges, should we break up or should we try and make this work?

I would only suggest continuing the relationship if you’ve found someone special. I wouldn’t recommend letting go of someone if you feel it could go somewhere. Don’t fret if it doesn’t work out between you and him, there will be other boys.

If you believe that the relationship will result in termination, then make the best of the time you have left together—don’t just end it because of the futility of the break up at the end of the year. Make memories, enjoy one another’s company and live free.  You should understand that it isn’t the end of the world if you break it off with him, there will definitely be a lot more fish in the sea.

Although if you believe that it would work out between you and your significant other and want to have a long distance relationship, what I advise you to do is to sit down with him and discuss the options you have.  Think about the direction of the relationship. Talk about where both futures are heading and if the pathways intermingle or will parallel; in order for a long distance relationship to work, both parties have to be completely involved—you can’t just have one foot out the door and on the next booty that walks into your line-of-sight. Lastly I heavily recommend not following him to college. You need to follow you dreams and not him; put yourself and your own aspirations before any boy.

All in all, long distance relationships are extremely difficult but can be absolutely magical. As cliché as it sounds, as one door closes another opens regardless of the decisions you make.

Good luck.

So, my friend is trying to date my ex who’s really psychotic and sketchy and even slid into her DMs, do I say anything or let her figure it out on her own?

Although talking to your friend about your ex-boyfriend is probably the last thing you would want to do—you owe it to your friend to warn her of his psychotic mannerisms. First thing you’re going to do is find out if they’re on the path to going steady or if it’s just merely a friendship in the making. If you suspect a future relationship, it is absolutely necessary to warn your friend of this dude. List out the things he has done to you—the reasons why you believe he’s “psychotic and sketchy.”

The next order of business is to prepare for her reaction when you explain to her about the ex. ALWAYS EXPECT THE WORST CASE SENARIO. If she does react unpredictably bad, it is absolutely a priority to remain calm, cool and collected. Do not get into an argument over a dude—it’s not worth losing a friend over some guy; especially not a “psychotic and sketchy” one.

If her persistency overpowers your reason and she still wants to date him, all you can do is let her. As a friend you’re there to help pick her up and provide support after the cataclysm of relationships. You’ve done all you can to try and swerve her away from your crazy ex, but in the end it’s all up to her decision.

Everything will work out magically. It always does.